|Text: Hebrews 5:7
In his life on earth Jesus made his prayers and requests with loud cries and tears to God, who could save him from death.
Getting inside of someone else’s mind is a really difficult thing. What makes people think and act the way they do isn’t easy. As you listen to the news have you ever thought to yourself or even said out loud, “What on earth was that person thinking? “What was going through his head to make him do this?”
We hear of a gunman entering a school and randomly shoot a teacher and students.
We hear of someone brutally harming a child.
Each time we shake our heads because we can’t fathom what has happened in that person’s life or what is going on in their minds to bring them to that point.
A pastor was called in to support a young mother and her two children who were shocked and traumatised by the unexpected death of their husband and father. After what seemed like a normal lunch with the family, he went out to the shed and ended his life.
The police, family, friends and neighbours all asked the same question, “Why did he do it? What was going on in his head? He had a lovely wife and great kids – what led him to take such an extreme action?” Everyone was trying to get inside his mind but in the end everyone had to admit that they would never know. As much as we would have liked to get an insight into what this father was really thinking it was now impossible.
We might ask – how much does Jesus understand what is happening in our lives? Our fast-paced world is so different from the dusty roads Jesus walked in first-century Palestine.
Does he understand our needs and sufferings?
Can he empathise with our worries, especially those worries that upset us and stress us?
Does he really know what is going on inside of our minds and what is really distressing us?
To be specific since Jesus experienced none of these while here on earth –
does he know what it’s like to lie in a hospital bed;
does he know what it’s like being 70 or 80 and all that goes with an aging body;
does he know about the stress that’s involved as we go through the various stages of life – getting married, raising children, dealing with teenagers, changing jobs, planning for retirement and then choosing the right moment to go into an aged care facility?
Does Jesus know and even care about these things which, in the big picture of the universe, are quite trivial but to us they are what make up our lives?
We acknowledge that Jesus is God;
that he was there at the creation of the world and
that he now rules with all power and authority. As Paul wrote, “Christ rules above all heavenly rulers, authorities, powers, and lords; he has a title superior to all titles of authority in this world and in the next” (Eph 2:21-22). Jesus is so totally different to us – his ways, his wisdom, his knowledge, his decision are way beyond our comprehension. Theologians have called God The Totally Other. If the glorified Jesus is The Totally Other how well can he appreciate the things that are happening in our lives right now? Has he ever had a sick day? Has he ever had to grapple with depression, terminal illness, or to live in a dysfunctional family?
We know that Jesus was the one perfect person to walk this earth but that leads us to ask, “Was his personality, his character, his ability to cope and endure, his patience, his understanding and compassion so perfect from the moment he was born that it made it impossible for him to understand what it’s like not to be perfect?” Therein lies the question that is almost as old as Christianity itself – Was Jesus really human or was he God in human disguise – in other words, he didn’t really become one of us?
The answer we give is crucial. Among the things Christians believe is that through the birth, life and death of Christ, God became a part of what it means to be human. He didn’t stand aloof from our pain and trouble. He came right into the middle of all that causes suffering, sadness, depression, sin, rebellion and death. That’s what Christmas is all about – God leaving heaven and enduring all that is involved in becoming a human on this planet including birth in a time when infants dying at birth or soon after was quite common.
Because of Jesus, God can identify with us. He actually cares for us as one who personally knows us from the inside out and the outside in. He knows what is really happening inside of us and the causes of the trauma and drama in our lives better than we know ourselves. He knows all this because he has lived here amongst it all and experienced it all himself.
We say that through Jesus God knows what it is like to be hungry or to have plenty, to toil and sweat.
God knows the frustration of learning discipline and skills which do not come naturally.
God comprehends what it is like to sleep peacefully or toss sleeplessly, to relax and enjoy a joke.
Jesus may not have been an old man and experienced the aches and pains that old age bring but he certainly knew pain when every muscle, sinew, tendon and gaping wound made him cry out in agony.
Through Jesus God personally knows the sneakiness of some temptations and the full-on audacity of others. From Christ God appreciates what it’s like to be warmed by a smile or snubbed by indifference.
God understands what it’s like to enjoy a new friendship and treasure an old one, to feel affirmed and to feel betrayed, to suffer for the truth, to be misunderstood, to make enemies, to suffer emotional and physical agony, and to feel forsaken. Yes, forsaken; forsaken by everyone. At the cross Jesus knows what it’s like to feel forsaken, even by God.
Some people say that if Jesus is not divine, then Christianity is a hoax. That is a part of the truth. I would say that if Jesus were not fully divine and fully human then Christianity is a hoax.
When the writer of Hebrews says, “In his life on earth Jesus made his prayers and requests with loud cries and tears to God” he is reflecting on Jesus agony in the Garden of Gethsemane where he felt fear, dread, terror, and anxiety just as any of us would in the same circumstances. He prayed and begged God to save him but still he had to suffer. The letter to the Hebrews presents Jesus as the truly obedient son. Obedience led to suffering and even though he feared death as much as anyone else, he trusted God perfectly. Through his obedience he gained forgiveness for all those who buckle under the weight of suffering and depression; for all those who doubt God’s love for them when life becomes more than can be endured.
It’s natural for us to shy away from suffering. Not surprisingly, we dislike hard discipline and pain. We would like a trouble free, painless existence. Yet we need to face the unpalatable truth that we often learn more through suffering than we often do through comfortable times.
The very successful movie and TV star Michael J Fox was interviewed on TV was time ago. At the age of 29 he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease and was on a quest to find a cure.
The interviewer asked Fox after a clip from his time travel movie, “If you could go back in time, really, you wouldn’t change the fact that you’ve got Parkinson’s, would you?”
Fox replied, “No, I wouldn’t. I absolutely wouldn’t. This path that I’m on …. it’s like I gave up my job to do my life’s work”.
That’s an amazing statement when you think about it. There is an element of sacrifice about it and there is also the idea that suffering, used creatively, can enhance the beauty of a human life. You may know of times in your life when some kind of trial or suffering has led you to grow in your understanding of God or developed your own perseverance, or strengthened your faith and trust, or increased your awareness of the suffering of others. The path that Jesus was on included obedience and suffering and his life’s work brought about a cure for another sickness – the sickness of sin.
Even though Jesus never sinned he knows the shame and guilt that sin brings into our lives. He was nailed to a cross but it was more than nails that held him there. If it was just the nails then he could have used his almighty power and come down and healed himself and cursed his enemies. Nails went through his flesh but it was our sin and shame and guilt that pinned him to the cross. As he hung there he felt our shame and died for our sin. He must have been overwhelmed with sadness at how much evil humanity had done and it was all now bearing down on him. As the Scripture says, “He was wounded for our transgressions; he was bruised for our iniquities”.
When we look in the scriptures we see Jesus in two different ways. In every way Jesus is one of us. He is as human as you and I. He is born and dies. He knows in a very real way what it means to suffer pain, and have needs, to feel vulnerable and helpless. The man Jesus died the undignified death on a cross as a sinner giving his life to save all people.
The scriptures also show us that Jesus is God. He created the world and us and as our Creator knows his creation. He knows us more intimately than we can ever imagine. He knew us before we were born – even before we were aware of ourselves. He rose from dead and rules in heaven; he is our eternal high priest in heaven who presents our needs and prayers for us at the Father’s throne in a compassionate and understanding way (Hebrews 4:14-16).
At the beginning I talked about getting into the mind of someone else and understanding where that person is coming from and what makes him/her act in certain ways. What makes us tick might be a bit of mystery to other people but it is no mystery to Jesus. Approach God boldly and confidently, knowing with every human need that you suffer, Jesus is the High Priest who hears, knows and understands how you feel.
© Pastor Vince Gerhardy